I'm still trying to understand why folx do not understand variance in poker. It's the same w/vehicles. You can be the most cautious driver, follow all the traffic signs correctly, have new tires, wipers, lights, and all the other "up-to-date" safety features and still wind up in an accident. It's just going to happen. The laws of variance do not care if you're pocket aces are dominating the 54std that someone called you're 3bet with. This is where the so called "gamble" takes place in poker.
I personally love to crack aces so forgive me if I'm not too sympathetic towards bad-beats. It's just a harsh reality-check for some folx... I guess?