How do you feel about aggression in chat? How often do you see her in the game? I try not to notice it, but it happens that it pisses me off, and I start to make mistakes.
But I also cannot understand why they sometimes show aggression. They say you're a fish and stuff. If you're playing against a fish, you should be happy about it and take advantage of the moment,
That is the reason players do it, to put people on "tilt" and they start making mistakes. I treat aggression in chat as being funny and let them see it is like Water of a duck's back, it really does not bother me and I find it incredibly funny because I know I am getting under their skin.
The easiest way to fight it is to block the player from Chat so you do not see their remarks, another way is to fight fire with fire and give them as much back, When a player calls me a Fish I will reply "Yes! I am a fish, but this fish is in front of you LOL" Show them that name calling is childish way to get you angry, and it does not work, in one instance a player was calling my Avatar a puffy poodle and his Pit-bull would tear my dog's throat out, My Samoyed Husky I had, died many years ago and I have her picture as my Avatar, I just replied " Oh Yeah! and my dad's bigger than your Dad! Bring it on sunshine" I took him out of the game in 3
hands.
Once you lose your temper and it start's getting to you, then the game is over. Just don't let it be you.
When the fun Stops, STOP!