Playing poker requires a mentality that, quite frankly, most of the female population doesn't possess. The predatory nature of the game and aggressive demands don't match with most females in society, probably partially due to the image that society projects however that is a whole different topic. Not to say that women who don't have an aggressive streak aren't going to play the game, it's just that like anything else losing is no fun and us being experienced poker players know that passivity and weakness are desirable traits in opponents. If women feel like they are being bullied at the table they aren't going to come back for some more.
I don't mean to be offensive by making assumptions Debi, so I'll apologise first and let you know this is only for comparisons sake. Knowing almost nothing about you other than that you play poker I think I can accurately be of the opinion that you are more confident, assertive and logical than most females. That is only naming three, there will no doubt be other qualities that are more prominent among female poker players but I'm no psychologist.
Agree that the ladies events are a good thing. The more ladies playing poker the more likely it is that us degens have a chance at finding love!