I like how Glovvorn started, "There is some luck involved in almost every aspect of life." To compound on top of that. the most successful people take the time to study their industry. They find out what works, and what doesn't. In other words, you should spend just as much time playing as you do studying the game to get better. At the end of the day you still make money off the opportunities that presents itself. you capitalize on these opportunities though hardwork. All while being at the right place at the right time.
Then in other situations like finding "your soulmate". It's almost complete luck of being in the right place at the right time, but if you try and overcompensate because of previous interactions, you normally lose out on that opportunity. when all you had to do was be yourself, and you might have been set for life...
All of this is relevant, if you put in the work to be good, you will be good. In turn, if your good, and try to change your style of play into something your not. You could lose the best thing to ever happen to you.