s-s-s-s-story change! Earlier, you checked down pots with each other. Now you just avoided him preflop because he's a tight player.
Not at all. The OP probably spoke in general terms for the sake of brevity. But there are
many shades of gray.
First of all my story is straight i tried to avoid pots with rfeely and if I got in them I would try not to bet against him. Like bet sometimes but not push all in or check it down. But if he bet i figured he had he best hand if I was in the pot. FTP what do u think is bull shit? my story or that they really just kept the money?
And you'd possibly contend that it was card dependent. Hopefully you might fold a a JQos or low PP but not an AA or KK. Again, I don't know what you did, to what degree, and how often, but I'll give you
some benefit of the doubt. You might have had a suspicious 'familiar' conversation with your friend that got reported, IDK.
I'm a little concerned that this group seems to be so willing to convict the OP without any true regard to his story, much less a willingness to look in the mirror.
Have any of you ever played a hand differently than you otherwise would when you realized the guy who raised was either a friend or someone you play with regularly? I've seen threads regarding "CC invasions" that obviously pit acquaintances, if not friends, against one another. I've also witnessed CC and non-CC players fold to a short stack near the bubble when any two cards should have called (sometimes even thanking each other or discussing the "charity" in the chat).
I'm not saying that the OP is innoncent, but I guess I'm just not so quick to judge. I also don't understand how FT can wait so long before taking action and still take all of his money, if indeed his admitted violations, minor or otherwise, were well before he made any money.
Personally I played in a few freerolls long, long ago in which I suggested to other players that we trade the blinds instead of driving each other out. So we each might triple up against the autofolders instead of beating each other up. Now I know better, and would never chat about that again, much less fold AA when it was my turn to sacrifice a blind. Back then my BR might have been $20. Now that it's $2000 does FT have the right to confiscate all of my money?
Maybe they have the right, but that doesn't make it right. Think about it.
+1, all good stuff. I've only 1 friend that I seek out to play at Omaha HL, but it's still infrequently. I don't check down the nuts. In fact, if he raises, I might come over the top, letting him know this one is mine, instead of trapping like I might do if he had folded. Is it wrong? Maybe. But ya see, it's not checking down or staying out of a pot with a good hand. We've taken each other money, not often. But it's not by any stretch what I would consider collusion,
IMHO, maybe not everybody's. No outside chat of any kind. Not play at the same table? No way. We joke, flirt, talk a little smack, and totally enjoy each other's company.
Have also traded the blinds with seemingly willing participants, and not always each hand if I got something real good. But it's always unspoken. Not dumb enough to put it in the chat box. Almost that dumb, but not quite.