Pocket Aces Usually Win
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He isn't wrong. They usualy win. (its Ed Miller.. he is right about pertty much everything).
BUT
Look at the situation you are creating with multiple limpers and a SS.
You have a stack of 20BB.
Raise small, limp whatever.
You raise 3BB and get 3 callers.
The preflop pot is 10BB (one of the blinds called)
The SPR is 1. (it dosent get any lower than this!!)
So post flop what do you do? Well you have AA you have an increadbly low SPR.. the only thing you can do is to make that pot sized raise.
You can check and call, check and raise but you have to put that money in.
Now anyone with any poker sense will realise that firstly you have a range. This means that when the guy calls you with KK.. you didnt outsmart him. What else was he going to do, your EP range probably looks something like {TT+ AK}
He stacks up well against that range so he calls.
What about if there is an 8 out draw on the flop. You offer 2:1 on something which happens about 2:1 so the villian calling here dosent make a mistake either.
This is the crux of recipricality, if you were to stand up, trade places with your opponent and play the hand using only the infomation thay have, you would play it in exactly the same way they did.
Therefore you have constructed a situation where you have no reciprical advantage.
Its like shoving AA preflop and being called by KK. Did you outplay him? No, and at some point you will play KK in exactly the same way against AA.
So the key to playing good poker is to get into situations where you have a reciprocal advantage.
Playing AA in a multiway pot with a SS is never going to give you any advantage.
Deep stacked its worse, you don't need to look to recipricality, for most players implied odds is the problem, and they either find themselves winning the pot there and then or getting into a situation where multiple villians are able to outdraw tham.