caracaski220
Confront right now! In the long run it will be much worse if you hide it from your wife. She will feel betrayed and say she cant trust you, then hold it over you the rest of your life.
She might think you are cheating with another woman, which really can get complicated.
Stand your ground now . tell her you are going to have one or 2 poker night s a week. That she will be able to contact you, and now were you are, but you need that release and that freedom.
Another complication of not telling your wife, is that you will loose concentration during a game because you are worring about what to say, or what she thinks, or be totally wrapped up in the time going by , thus ending up loosing at the game. And thats worse than loosing your wife!