First off nice post. To address a few issues, first off i wasnt playing the game so i dont know the table conditions either.
First off, AQo is a very marginal hand after facing a TIGHT and KNOWEDGLEABLE player who has raised UTG, even 6 handed, and even more so against a player that has us covered. Calling is terrible, if we raise and get called, do we c-bet on a rag flop ? (I dont reraise here with AA against a position raise btw esp 6 handed). Too risky and marginal, especially if we can play some effictive short handed small pot poker.
2) First in happens lots in real life. Come on, the cardschat crew tend to be as tight as a fishes arse at this stage of forum games, first in, and stealing with random 2 is the norm for the ppl that cash in them on a regular basis. Re-steals, meta game considerations and all that jazz comes into play on a level you wont achieve online until you reach much much higher buyins. Good players dont call raises unless they have a reason to in general, I raise with 23o from MP 6 handed occasionally, if i get reraised i fold, if i get called its usually by one of the blinds and i have position. Ok if you reraise properly and get shoved on, your not calling ?? I need to have a proper look at it but a call should be standard here.
Let me start by saying that you may not think so, but I respect your opinions. I'm going to have to give a better look at this hand and put some more thought into it. The biggest issues here are 2, I believe. The first 1 is the strength of Chuck's hand. In general, I think AQo in the CO is very strong in a 6-handed game. Now, you didn't say it isn't strong, but you think its marginal in this situation, because you're facing a raise from a tight and good player UTG. All this is certainly reasonable, UTG raises from tight players should get respect. But, if he has been tight, now that the table is 6-handed, shouldn't we assume that his range is loosening, also because he has given this image? Lets be honest, tight is not a winning strategy on the final table of a tourney once players start getting knocked out and the table gets smaller. That's not to say you turn it into a crapshoot, but if you don't make a stand with AQ in the CO, then when? The one thing I agree with is that this is very situational, and your image also needs to be taken into account, hence, that means there isn't a cold dry answer to this IMO, but perhaps I'm wrong.
The 2nd issue here is more of a strategic one, where I'm understanding that you would rather not call or reraise pots but play some effective shorthanded small pot poker. I don't think I can argue this if some conditions are met, i.e. if table actually allows you to do so. Its a great strategy when its effective. But this brings up the same question again. When and how do you stop opponents from doing this? Is AQo in the CO not a good hand to repop and try to stop it? You say first in and stealing with random 2 is the norm, so when do we make a stand against it? It seems to me that the arguement for folding this is mostly because the raise is coming from a tight player UTG, but Chuck then adds that nico never actually showed down his hands?!?!?! So, if first in and stealing is the norm, why are we assuming that nico has to have a big hand?
Even if it might not sound like it, I actually don't want to argue your post. What has me the most perplex here is the fact almost everyone, not only you, considers the call terrible. TBH, I actually like to reraise much more than smooth call, but even if so I struggle to see why this is such a terrible call. I can understand the whole point that you'd rather play small pot poker, but the 2 things are not and can't be mutually exclusive. I think in order to win the final table at some point you also need to make a move to get more chips, small pot is great but can only take you so far and the advantage will go to whoever piles up chips at a faster pace than you. Again, this doesn't mean turning it into a crapshoot, but when exactly do you make a move, since I'm sure you agree that we can't sit and wait for aces to do it?
In total honesty, I admit that my shorthanded game needs to improve. I'm not very good at it, I'm much better than I was before and have realized some of the mistakes I used to make and I'm having better results ever since, but I'm far from having achieved "expert" status. Therefore, I'm reading all this with interest and trying to make sense of it, and I'm doing so in good faith and not because I want my opinion to win, I really couldn't care less about that. The true purpose is to understand and learn, in order to improve your weak areas, and unfortunately shorthanded is not exactly my strong so this type of HA are the ones I follow with alot of interest.
I will, as I said, give some more thought on this hand and might post more about it later.