Men playing in ladies poker tournaments?

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Men are playing in Poker Ladies tournaments?!. Why not?!. If this, of course, not forbidden the rules...
 
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...I believe they have to allow men to register so as not to discriminate, the fact that this guy felt the need to do this is the perfect explanation of why some women feel more comfortable playing with other women...
 
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I think, it require a fairly special mentality to register to a ladies event as a guy. And while I guess, its kind of funny, he actually won this one, its not really good for poker, that he did it. But with that being said I think, legislation is also to blame here. If a casino wants to run a poker tournament for only people above 65 years of age, is that then also not allowed? And why? Senior competitions are completely normal in sport, as is of course same sex competitions. So for me this is taking the fight against discrimination to far.
 
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If you are looking for further details on this story re: David Hughes having entered a WPT Ladies Event at Seminole Hard Rock, CardsChat contributor, Daniel Smyth gives us the story linked below.

David Hughes Wins WPT Seminole Ladies Event, Twitter Reacts

Wow, thanks, Shelley, for sharing the details of this story. 🙊🙉🙈
I take back my words.😤
It seems like this is a really low act on the part of this player and his behavior confirms it. The reward for his head, of course, is a great bonus, but it's not worth it if the participant allowed himself to behave rudely.... if he at least behaved decently and had fun with the ladies, then it could be a really interesting game with the cherry on the cake in the form of the only man in the tournament... but alas.
I am glad that the ladies reacted adequately to this situation.🌺🌺🌺
 
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If you are looking for further details on this story re: David Hughes having entered a WPT Ladies Event at Seminole Hard Rock, CardsChat contributor, Daniel Smyth gives us the story linked below.

David Hughes Wins WPT Seminole Ladies Event, Twitter Reacts

Thank you Shells! I think that Mr. Hughes is a born smartalec, as my mother called it, and we would have probably been friends in high school. :) I say that while giving the benefit of the doubt as to his reason for entering this tournament. This quote from the article seems to support my interpretation:
In fact, even Hughes offered a bounty to anyone who put the final nail in his coffin (he’d already re-entered twice by that point).
I'd love to read an interview with him about this incident, and get his perspective on the why he did this. :)
 
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If you are looking for further details on this story re: David Hughes having entered a WPT Ladies Event at Seminole Hard Rock, CardsChat contributor, Daniel Smyth gives us the story linked below.

David Hughes Wins WPT Seminole Ladies Event, Twitter Reacts

Thank you, @Shells! Great article by Daniel Smith. I am glad to hear that the ladies in the event took it in stride and didn't let it spoil it for them.
 
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Women have been fighting for equality for so long that they should now enjoy equal rights with men and not require that tournaments be divided into men's and women's tournaments.
 
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Women have been fighting for equality for so long that they should now enjoy equal rights with men and not require that tournaments be divided into men's and women's tournaments.
I agree that women should enjoy equal rights to men, but sadly that is not always the case. Although women have a right to play in open poker events, there are still some men who make it a point to harass and bully women at the poker table to make sure they do not feel welcome. The purpose of ladies-only events is to provide a safer environment for women to play poker. That being said, people are people, and sometimes even at the ladies-only events there can be unpleasant situations...just part of life, I guess. I just think if men could give that little bit of space for ladies-only events, then more women will venture into the open events.
 
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Why did you bother a person. Maybe he enjoys sorority in poker.
 
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Sometimes when the organizers price the tournament higher then give women a discount, it can discourage men from playing. Legally, they cannot bar men. Or, if they do play, they have to pay a premium. I just think it is bad sportmanship on his part. Yes, it would have been great if a woman could have knocked him out of the tournament.

Where do you get the idea that they legally can't bar men? Are you suggesting that the WNBA is and illegal organization?
 
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I have mixed feelings about women's leagues/tournaments in both poker and chess. I think I see two sides to it, so here they are as I see them.

On the one hand, unlike sports with big physical components, there's nothing about poker that suggests that men and women shouldn't be on the same level, so there's no fairness question. When there is separation, I think it can reinforce negative stereotypes. I was looking at chess forums recently, and there are a lot of people that believe that men are inherently cognitively superior to women in ways that make them better at chess. I think there are probably plenty of people who feel similarly about poker, and I think if women's leagues and women's tourney's is leading to that, that's a crying shame.

On the other hand, in both things (chess and poker), there are way more men than women involved and interested. I think poker has made some great steps in this area, but if these tournaments bring more women to the game, then that should be a good thing, right?

Seeing both sides, I really don't know which one is a stronger argument.
 
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Where do you get the idea that they legally can't bar men? Are you suggesting that the WNBA is and illegal organization?
I think that that games hosted in a licensed casino would fall under the prohibition of discrimination due to the venue being a "public accommodation". That places it under federal, and probably state, laws that prohibit discrimination based upon sex, race, religion, etc...

As for a privately owned sports league, I really don't know.
 
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I don't understand why prohibiting men in a ladies' tourney is discrimination but I
think they prohibit men in ladies' restrooms and changing rooms.
just a lack of respect.
Hello.🙂
In fact, I have a rather ambivalent feeling about this.
On the one hand: why not? If he is the only man in the women's tournament, then it can still be called a women's tournament. 🤷‍♀️
Moreover, such an excellent prize for knocking it out can add excitement to women and motivate them to get rid of he sooner. ☺
On the other hand, I may be wrong, but as far as I remember, it is impossible to prohibit men from playing in a women's tournament by gender, but men, unlike women, must pay the full cost of the ticket (although maybe I'm confused with some specific event).
I just don't understand why men climb into the women's tournament? Because there are fewer rivals there? 🤦‍♀️There are really fewer women, so why not let them play in peace? 😤It seems that going to the women's tournament, men naively believe that no one will knock them out there. 😤

But, in fact, specifically in this case, I would not be upset by the presence of a man. It's a pity that no one has knocked him out.🤷‍♀️
you answered all the questions yourself so are you still on the fence or do you understand why they are douchbags?
Well, then I remember everything correctly regarding the conditions under which men participate.
Yes, I agree that you shouldn't go where you weren't invited - it's ugly on the part of men and shows what they are, but on the other hand, if a man positions it as a help and an additional bonus for his head or, in case of victory, he wants to direct the winnings to charity or on the development of women's events, then why not - it won't look bad in my eyes.
I'm trying to say that if the goals of men in this case are selfish, then it's really sad. But, the goals may be noble.
there's no other hand, even if a man has a large bounty on his head, even if he paid 90% more for his ticket,
even if he donates 100% to charity he is still a piece of crap with no respect.
the point is to give more women a chance to play with perceived less pressure in an attempt to get more women in the game and keep poker alive. he is giving poker and men a bad rep.

in reality, most of those women were better poker players than the donkey, he just got lucky.
in my opinion, equal rights does not mean women should be treated like men,
only that they should have equal rights, equal pay, etc.
 
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Where do you get the idea that they legally can't bar men? Are you suggesting that the WNBA is and illegal organization?
I am not a lawyer...I do not think they (card rooms) are willing to risk a lawsuit so if a man insists on playing, the venue will likely not prevent it.
 
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If I ever played in a Ladies event I would donate any money won to a ladies charity. I would ask the women at the table that I got knocked out from for suggestions and then do it.
 
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If I ever played in a Ladies event I would donate any money won to a ladies charity. I would ask the women at the table that I got knocked out from for suggestions and then do it.
You are a true sportsman. :)
 
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I think that that games hosted in a licensed casino would fall under the prohibition of discrimination due to the venue being a "public accommodation". That places it under federal, and probably state, laws that prohibit discrimination based upon sex, race, religion, etc...

As for a privately owned sports league, I really don't know.

I'm no lawyer, but I suspect tournaments can be seen as private events. It's not like they're saying to the guy "you're male so you can't play any poker here at all." They're just saying that you can't play in this specific tournament. The fact that there have been lots of women's tournaments in the past makes me think that there is no serious legal concern. casinos, ironically, are pretty risk averse businesses. They pretty much only deal in sure things.
 
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If it is permitted for a guy to play at a women's event ..... This is the fault of organisers . If they won't allow it , then men wouldn't play at women's events .
 
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I'm no lawyer, but I suspect tournaments can be seen as private events. It's not like they're saying to the guy "you're male so you can't play any poker here at all." They're just saying that you can't play in this specific tournament.
That's basically "separate but equal" and that doesn't work anymore since the Civil Rights Act of 1964 did away with this:

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The fact that there have been lots of women's tournaments in the past makes me think that there is no serious legal concern. Casinos, ironically, are pretty risk averse businesses. They pretty much only deal in sure things.
It would only come into play if some man was not allowed to enter the tournament and decided to start a lawsuit. I can't think of any other logical reason why this man was allowed to play in the tournament.
 
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Like some other members - I too am ambivalent about a man entering a women's tournament.

And I also agree with some members that he is probably a huge douche-canoe personality-wise.

But - and I am serious about this - can you think of a way to put a bigger target on your back? You can have a thousand dollar bounty on your head - but when everybody absolutely hates seat 8???? lol

Similar situation for a woman at a cash table full of sexist men. And I have seen women take advantage of this astutely.

Full confession - I tried to play a satellite for a ticket to the women's tournie in my live poker room.

I really wanted to play a tournie that day - i had the time, ambition, etc. And I had forgotten that it was the satellite to the women's tournie.

But, the room denied my entry. I pointed out that the Women's tournie was women only - but the satellite didn't say anything about it.

If I won the seat to the big tournie then I intended to back one of the female players. I know who the excellent ones are.

But it never got to that point.....:cry:
 
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I think that physical strength and endurance do not solve poker. Many women play better than any man
 
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