Herkstwin
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Bronze Level
The variance affects everyone. I think it takes several years to accept the game. The best approach is to focus on good decisions and not on short-term results.
The original question is about swings. This answer clearly addresses the issue - do not focus on the short-term. Focus on the long-term, and on continually improving your game. A swing of four or five hands is not a swing - it is a blip. Swings happen over months and as other have said, over hundreds of hands, or even dozens of sessions.