Live: I couldn't even start to list the horrible things that have been said to me at tables (dudes, cut it out! Like these guys have mothers who would be so ashamed at them). It used to really tilt me until I talked to an older woman reg at one of my local
casinos. She said "girl, if you let this stuff get to you you have no business being here. You're always gonna have a bounty on your head. Just use it to play your best or take a short break and walk around to get it out of your system." So now I am much better at shaking it off because I believe she is right. No reason to let it get to me, that would just be giving them what they want - my chips. Now I smile sweetly, put in some headphones with the volume off, and wait patiently for the perfect time to take their money.
Online: I find it funny. I usually watch those rude players bust out very early and laugh. They are just masking their insecurity like all bullies.