So it turns out that not having br can have good sides
My wife dont like poker, if she play sometimes it is few
hands of ftp round 1 on my account, she wouldnt ask for my poker money to play poker because she still dont believe that poker money are real, even that i had one small withdrawal. But if i win something significant like 1k+ she would want to spend it on us, she wouldnt understand that i would want to play with it...
I never talk about how much money i have on poker but i sometimes brag about winnings if they are bigger then cents...
So for naruto and wife, i guess that there is no black and white answer to your dilemma. Everyone is right, only the angles are different.
If you want to be strict with brm and still want to make your wife happy deposit money to her account from your other earnings, its a winwin imo, then your brm and wife will be happy.
I trying to recall of a story that i think that i read at super/system where there was a poker player who ask another poker player to borrow money for kid's medications and when he get the money he said that there will be a big game at nigth that they should play, other player asked him how he will play if he dont have money, he answered that he have money for that... I guess that poker players and wives wouuld have a completely different understanding of this story...