every tiny bet you made only serves to build a pot as nobody will fold if they have any kind of hand or any kind of draw given those odds. So you should only make those kinds of tiny bets when you WANT people to stick around. (i.e. a monster that is hard to draw out on).
Then, when you finally have a monster (the stone cold nuts) you just flatted. that is backwards my friend. You have to raise the river hoping that a random Q will look you up.
So, my advice is as follows:
Preflop: either check your option and hope to flop a well disguised monster, or take the lead in the hand with what is likely to be the best hand and raise much bigger. The rule of thumb is about a pot sized raise or 3xbb + 1bb for each limper. A pot sized raise would be 200. 3bb+1bb+1bb+1bb = 6bb. so you should have raised to between 200-300 preflop if you wanted to isolate.
Flop: OK, you're OOP in a multiway pot when you've whiffed probably just check fold. But since you had the lead if you want to Cbet it has to be for a lot more...like half pot at least.
Turn: you just have a draw. with only 1 card to come you're not getting the odds to call (even in a mutliway pot). fold the turn.
River: As played, the beautiful miracle card comes giving you the nuts. pray that somebody has a queen and raise. I don't care if you min raise or jam. jamming looks weaker but any raise is better than flatting with the nuts in a mutliway pot.