IT'S ALL RIGGED. THEY ARE ALL RIGGED. THE GAME IS RIGGED. THE GOVERNMENT IS RIGGED. THE WORLD IS RIGGED.
Or none of it is and that's just life, which suck sometimes, even more so when you're not the best at it and no one really is. But I know that from the bottom of the bin, it feels like it all the time.
Best approach is to actually spend time learning, developing and beating "the matrix" rather than being emotional about it. I haven't yet but hey, I've got hope.
You lose, so what? You probably lose at most things that you are not proficient at. Put in the practice, the hours, the blood, sweat and tears and maybe it'll not be all in vain. Maybe, that is. Ain't life a gamble, eh?
Genuine advice: work on your emotional wellbeing and persevere. It is difficult AF but what else can you do?
Last but not least:
THE WHOLE WORLD WANTS TO BE FREE!