Exactly !
The times, that I've thrown away an unsuited 3-J and the flop went 3-J-J, I can not count.
I like to get to the flop, but when I have to pay nearly all my
'poenties' to see
if there will be a nice flop is insane. I won't even pay any, if I don't feel like calling 'a fish' at that moment. As that's what it is; looking for that lucky strike is
fishing.
I sometimes did and struck gold; an all-in call with 2-6 suited became a full-house, as example. But trust me, I won't call all-in's usually with these cards. Topicstarter shouldn't worry and just keep folding as much as possible
Only play, when you feel, you will make a fair chance. Or when you are low stacked ... or you obviously know, the other guy is bluffing
'What is a good hand ?' - Suited with some connection to a straight. Naturally, the higher, the better. My favourite is J-K suited. I fold aces ...