If it really is secondary income, the first thing I'd be concerned with is getting the account unblocked. Email Full Tilt and explain it to them, and maybe they will undo it.
If that didn't work, I'd deposit what I could to another
poker site.
pokerstars is the obvious choice for this, as they're big like Full Tilt, and will send you a cash out check faster than any other
online poker site.
Maybe your friend can help you out with that initial deposit?
Once your gaming occupation was back in order, then you could think about revenge. Sign his email address up for gay dating sites, etc.