Hello brother
Sorry, but if you don't understand that each player has a time bar to analyze the hand, then my humble recommendation is that you dedicate yourself to another faster game.
In poker, time is money, or it is the possibility of being eliminated in a tournament or not.
Your opponent's time bar is not only for him, but also for you. This is because while you took an action in a hand, that time helps you analyze the hand and what decision to make in response to the decision your opponent makes.
I'm really not interested in taking the entire time bar, if it helps me to coldly analyze the hand and make a decision.
Most bad decisions in poker are decisions that are made in a hurry.
I'll give you an example, you are in an MTT where you have a very good stack and the opponent who makes an OPR in early position also has a good stack. You have a pair of QQs and you think quickly "and this hand in BB is all in." Did you start to think a little more about what position you are in??? How much are you from ITM??? Why should I go all in this hand if my opponent can outplay me and beat me??? and other situations. Well, the good poker player in a tournament analyzes all of those situations. What's more, before they happen, they analyze those situations.
That is why, on the contrary, when I am playing an MTT I take very seriously the player who takes his time to think about a hand, in fact in most cases I label him as a regular player.
By analyzing a situation in time you also impose respect for you on your rival. In general, players who auto check or auto call are not well regarded or the majority are seen as fish, and the sharks are very aware of this situation.
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