I think critics about the way you play your game are always valuable.
I had a lot of discussions in the past with my ex-husband (or still-hubby) about how to play certain
hands or how to play at all.
About brm and about anything poker related. This is good, if you have such a sparing partner, I think.
Or maybe also have a poker buddy who watches your game closely and criticizes you. This is just good for the development of your game.
And if it comes to family, who do not know how to play poker, I am lucky meanwhile.
They do not criticize me anymore since they know I am a reasonable player, who does not play house and ground away.