We shouldn't be afraid of flipping here fwiw
You're right, we shouldn't be afraid of flipping but if he has a range of TT+ AQs+ AK we are either flipping or we are crushed against all of his
hands meaning we are pretty far behind his entire range.
No but on this flop we could easily make the shove, but the pot isn't all that big. I suppose flatting/3-betting small like he has gives him a chance to get away from flops like AKJ, or make it easier/better to get it in on 'safer' flops. Also on this flop if we bet big and villain reraises we call anyways
If you ever think about 3 betting bigger here and folding on any flop you may need to read up a little on SPR (stack to pot ratio).
SPR is basically is a way to measure when we become pot committed. To figure out the SPR in a hand we take the smallest remaining stack and divide that by the size of the pot. For this hand on the flop the pot is $1.15 and we have $2.70 remaining in our stack. This means our SPR is 2.3 (2.7 / 1.15 = 2.3). If we both had 100bb stacks however our SPR would be 8.3 (9.50 / 1.15 = 8.3).
The higher our SPR is on the flop the more maneuverability we have with our post flop actions. With a smaller SPR we have a lot less options available to us.
A simple guide that I have found is that when we have an SPR between 0 and 2 we should be comfortable to get our stacks in on most flops.
Between 3 and 7 (quite often in 3 bet pots) we don't have a great amount of room to move and we need to decide before making our move on the flop whether or no we are comfortable getting stacks in on this board against this opponent.
With an SPR of 7 or more we have a good amount of flexibility with our post flop actions. We can create pot sizes according to the strength of our hand. We can start building the pot with big hands that we want to stack off with or try to control the pot size with our small to medium strength hands.
The biggest effect on our SPR is usually our preflop actions. Just adjusting our preflop raise size by 1 or 2 bbs can drastically change the size of the pot by the river.
In this hand if you are to 3 bet bigger, lets say to $0.90 and get called. This gives us an SPR of 1.2 (2.30 / 1.95 = 1.2). We really don't want to be getting ourselves into spots where we have an SPR this low and folding a lot of the time post flop. When we do get to a flop with an SPR this low we should be doing it with hands that will play well on basically any flop.
but 3-betting bigger gives a chance to take the pot down preflop
If you are 3 betting to take it down preflop you are essentially turning your hand into a
bluff (to get better hands to fold). If we want to bluff shouldn't we be gaining as much fold
equity as possible by shoving?
Also are you going to call when he 4 bet shoves? Are we ever ahead? or will we have the pot
odds to call against his shoving range?