Well, I do not use chat and seldom pay much attention to those who do. However, you cite what others said about you but not what you chat about (positive or negative).
I have noticed some players get irritated if one player keeps incessantly commenting, point out the obvious when all can see how a hand played out. Or letting people know they folded a winning hand etc.
I think you do not necessarily have to be negative yourself to set people off. However, if you notice you are being commented on with some regularity, then perhaps you should be aware if you are irritating people.
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