Preflop
Isolating to only 3BB is ok, because the limper is short. However you are deep with BB, and you have a very strong hand, so I prefer to go to 4BB strictly for value.
Flop
You flop top set, but its not the nuts, since AT and T9 flopped a straight. Against HJ I would be happy to stack off for his 25BB. But you are 130BB deep with BB, and this is to much to put in, when he can basically have all 32 combos, you lose to. And for that reason I would just call the lead AKA "donk bet" from BB to control the size of the pot.
Turn
You fill up, so now you only lose to one combo of QQ, and now you absolutely want to play for stacks. Just calling the 625 chip jam from HJ does not set you up for a river jam, so you have to raise here to something like 6k. It should be small enough, that its not totally obvious, you are never folding, but big enough, that a river jam is significantly less than pot.
River
Because you slowplayed turn, you need to overbet to get stacks in now, and that most likely get a bit to many folds. So as played I am ok with this sizing.