Stuck at a "stake" , this is a very good question. I know in my case, I had moved to the top of the micros, at least in my opinion. I was winning at 5/10cent cash and mtt's up to 5.50 buy-in. I had the bankroll to continue, I was feeling pretty confident and it just never happened? Over a period of a couple of months it seemed as if I lost my motivation? I still do not know if that was the case or did I have some deep rooted fear of failure? My poker playing just tapered off, I had 1000's of life excuses. Suddenly, I was busy, I could not find the right schedule for the new stakes, etc.... and on it goes. So a good question that I cannot nail down a good answer. I think this year I will put another effort into bringing my volume back up and see where it goes.
Thank you for this wonderful feedback and self-analyse.
We are pretty much the same shoes, but from your words I'm pretty sure you could make that step. You mentioned that you have a strickt schedule - let's stop here, and think about it. I was questioned myself as well that maybe my game is not as effective as it used to be, when I did the bankroll challanges and taking down to FTs. Then I realised that there's a basic game which I can offer, and some habbits are changing around it. I can just strenghten you that its possible to play your buyins great even you expended the time you playing them. If you don't have time to play, but have time to watch poker, its great too.
One additional thing is that on every side of the life, even with hobbies and family, we can lost ourselves, but if we love them, somehow we manage to become the old one again, maybe even better.
I lost thousands of my winning dollars having no bankroll-management and suffering to handle dollar cause my country a dollar means around 320HUF. And being a student worker for 9 years, mainly being a cashier its hard to calculate the whole day, and have a virtual money which is x320 less than it is. Even I'm crushing the micros too. So as I had 5 succesful bankroll challanges of 6 (only few dollar minus on the 6th), I'm doing a thread where I pre-organise my games and collecting the games of the year. Which means I will be not lost, and so as my money.
To answering my question, I think motivation to be better, and knowledge to stuck at the levels.
Wish you many happy moments, and let poker be again a great and profitable hobby (or work) just as you want.