IADaveMark
Rock Star
Silver Level
We often talk about how lucky someone (including ourselves) got because they "sucked out on" someone. For example, a common situation of hitting a 2-outer on the river. They literally had a 5% chance—1 in 20—to get there. Yeah, it happens. (Oddly, about 5% of the time, right?)
However, it is just as "lucky" to fade 20 people who had 2-outers against you. If you had 20 people who had that 5% (1 in 20) chance and none of them hit it, it is statistically just as "lucky". One of those 20 people should have hit based on the same application of statistics.
Did we "suck out on" the room because none of the 20 hit their 5% on us? Do we go home afterwards and say, "yeah, I got really lucky because I had 2-outters on 26 different people and none of them hit? Probably not.
The reason that we don't think of it that way is because it is so spread out. The situations themselves would very likely only come up over many hours and hundreds of hands. What's more, we attribute "luck" to either single events or a very tight series of events. Things that are connected in a recognizable way.
The other thing that kicks in is Negativity Bias. We remember negative events more strongly than positive ones. So we remember people sucking out on us more than we remember sucking out on others. This was kind of part of what Mike McDermott said in rounders:
Now apply that to the bad beats above.
Something to try to remember. Helps keep you off tilt if you can just recognize that "feces occurs."
However, it is just as "lucky" to fade 20 people who had 2-outers against you. If you had 20 people who had that 5% (1 in 20) chance and none of them hit it, it is statistically just as "lucky". One of those 20 people should have hit based on the same application of statistics.
Did we "suck out on" the room because none of the 20 hit their 5% on us? Do we go home afterwards and say, "yeah, I got really lucky because I had 2-outters on 26 different people and none of them hit? Probably not.
The reason that we don't think of it that way is because it is so spread out. The situations themselves would very likely only come up over many hours and hundreds of hands. What's more, we attribute "luck" to either single events or a very tight series of events. Things that are connected in a recognizable way.
The other thing that kicks in is Negativity Bias. We remember negative events more strongly than positive ones. So we remember people sucking out on us more than we remember sucking out on others. This was kind of part of what Mike McDermott said in rounders:
In "Confessions of a Winning Poker Player," Jack King said, "Few players recall big pots they have won, strange as it seems, but every player can remember with remarkable accuracy the outstanding tough beats of his career." It seems true to me, cause walking in here, I can hardly remember how I built my bankroll, but I can't stop thinking of how I lost it.
Now apply that to the bad beats above.
Something to try to remember. Helps keep you off tilt if you can just recognize that "feces occurs."