ebazynski
Rock Star
Platinum Level
I thought this forum was to help beginners. My mistake.
I think the folks here have tried hard to "help" but you seem to be looking for a quick fix, unfortunately there is none.
I can sympathize with your frustration at losing as I am in the midst of a run of bad fortune myself. However, I try to remind myself that making the right plays should be the goal, not always winning. This can be hard to accept when you are by nature a competitive person.
I don't know what your bankroll situation is, but losing at stakes higher than you can afford will certainly cause discomfort. As others have suggested, playing for lower stakes will take "some" of the sting out of losing.
I'm far for an expert player but realize there is no surefire key to winning all the time. Much like hitting a baseball where failing 70% of the time is considered good, we have to accept that we will strike out more often than we like. Hopefully things will get better for you...good luck!