I don't play a lot of tournaments, but I have played a lot of cash games with friends. Generally, I try and sit with position on most of them. I am also more aggressive, usually, because I know their ranges better and have played more with them. I don't soft-play them. If anything, it would be the opposite. I am not afraid to tangle with them. If they win, I know I will have a chance to get it back later. If I win, they'll get a chance to win it back from me. Plus, it's a matter of ego.