umm, anyone who felt guilty about steeling the blind of an opp that wasnt there, umm stop playing poker right NOW, this is not your game, more importantly people who said if its your friend, wait, well thats wrong too. Im ruthless ive refuse to chop with my best friend of 20+ years, you are my enemy till the game is over.
oh and for you newbies just calling will fold your opp hand if hes not seated, however; if your in a three handed situation, raise, as the other opp may not realize the opp is not seated, as this happens to multitablers, also if the live opp limps, raise it so he doesnt catch on, that opp is gone. It may cost you a little, cause your probably folding this hand at some point, but it may allow you to keep steeling the blinds with your live opp, none the wiser.