I look at poker as entertainment. If I lose a preset amount, fine, no big deal. I don't go to the movies, or really spend my extra money on anything. But it's always extra money, nothing that will affect bills or obligations. For the most part, lol.
I wonder what are your experiences with this issue. The dark side of this beautiful game. Taking money from people who have no control over themselves when they play. Easy money ? People who can afford to lose and those who are drowning in debt and borrowing more to play?
My personal opinion is that at the table I have no mercy. I will take everything you have and more. Off the table I will tell you to get help because you have a problem.