i beleive you should be able to say anything you want, and the other should be able to answer anything he wants, you can always disable chat, or look somewhere else, or live bring a mp3. the thing is after a player is out, he shouldnt be allowed to chat (too much)thats what i think, bad loosers are pretty much pathethic. he had nothing to do there after he lost, just a few words and thats it, anyway is his life, right.