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Online poker addicts may not be aware of the huge dents they are making in their savings. Where they once played for real dollars, they now see only “credits” in a browser window. An addict can spend hours on end at the keyboard, losing track of time and forgetting to sleep or eat. Loved ones are ignored in the process. Nothing seems to matter but the game.
But online poker addiction does not happen overnight—one day fine, the next day dependent. It is a process that takes over a susceptible player gradually, almost imperceptibly, until certain signals emerge to announce trouble ahead. Interest is turning into obsession. Others begin to notice changes, such as the following.
• Unable to differentiate between money used for gambling and used for living.
• Inability to take a day or a weekend away from online poker rooms.
• Borrowing money from friends, relatives or financial institutions to play poker.
• Lying to family about amounts of time spent online and money lost playing poker.
• Loss of job interest and instead thinking about game strategies at the workplace.
• Mood swings characterized by sullenness, short temper, anxiety and/or depression.
Observing one or more of these symptoms, in one’s self or in someone close, should trigger concern. It could be time for an intervention. The situation may warrant immediate action to stop a growing compulsion from becoming full blown addiction.
SOURCE:onlinepokerrealmoney
So let's say someone is a successful semi-professional poker player. They work a part-time job and they play poker about 30 hours per week. They follow strict BRM and only play at stakes where they are +EV. They have a huge interest in the game and think about it all day and night, but they lie to others about how long they play because they know that their family/friends are ignorant about poker and won't understand their passion. They do have mood swings on occasion, like feeling happy/excited during an upswing and feeling upset and low on motivation during a downswing. On occasion, they sell some action to play at stakes they wouldn't normally be rolled for, like playing in the wsop for example.
The person described above fits every symptom you gave about being a compulsive gambler. But is that really a bad thing?