I don't count because those things happen. Sometimes, we bust against a set and that is okay. It is a numbers game and sometimes we are just on the bad end of it. We should remember how infrequently a set is flopped - the times it doesn't come up means our pair or two pair might be ahead. Even if we are behind a set, we can still outdraw them occasionally. This is why some tighter opponents may bet bigger (or even shove if stack sizes are right for it), it is because they realize that even a set is vulnerable to draws getting there.
We should all strive to be as tough to read as Seth jk. Obviously, this is a typo and you meant "Set."
Yes, a set is tough to read. A set is also valuable from the perspective of the play with it because of possible hand combinations it blocks. If we have trips, then we might sometimes lose the unlucky spot of facing an opponent with the same three of a kind, but a stronger kicker than ours. However, holding a set, you know that no one has the same hole cards as you. If we have two of the four cards in the deck, and one on the board (set), then there is only one last card "out there" so no one can have two in their hand for the same set!
Say we hold KdKh on the flop of:
Qd 9s Kc
then we not only have top set (three Kings), but an opponent can't also have pocket Kings. We only have the King of Spades unaccounted for. Clubs is among the community cards and we hold the one in diamonds and hearts.
Not only is a set difficult to predict, but it also holds value in holding because we know we won't ever lose to the same three of a kind with a better kicker
Especially? Always lol. A set, by definition, means you are holding a pair (and connects with one among the community cards). When you have two among the community cards and you connect with one of your hole cards for three of a kind, then that is called "trips."
Example for "Set of Aces": Ac As with Flop of Ah 9c 6d
Example for "Trip Aces": Ah 9c with Flop of Ac As 5h
Agreed. It happens infrequently, but when you play enough poker, then you just stop counting because it happens a lot in large sample sizes. Still unlikely, but it is not an anomaly that never occurs.