Top set cracked by some absolutely insane miracle backdoor straight. ACR at its absolute finest!
All in pre btw
If it makes you feel better, you can randomize the board so that you get the set on the river. Pre-flop that was just barely better than a coin toss for you (56% vs 44%). It is only significant that it ran out that way had you bet all the way to showdown, but pre-flop all-in it really doesn't matter... It is just one of the possible boards that can be dealt. You could just as easily have lost to an AAK, KKK, a running flush, any A and K without another Q, etc. etc.
I think having such an all-in play would be appropriate if you had the best possible hand at the showdown. For example:
You have a pair of 99
the showdown is 8 7 6 5 3
You have a strong hand at showdown but it is not the best possible hand.
You would lose to another hand with 9 10.
Remembered all the cards of different nipes.
So it pays to use time bank and think a little. And risk your total stack less.
Good luck at the showdown.
if you are beat or playing someone with much better skillset is only time i would shove unless have hand which think will win.... now odds say 2 face cards and any ace or king etc... i do not shove till i have majority chips etc... im gonna outplay villian till they cant hurt me and have to double up a few times to beat me etc...
do you dare to dance with the devil in the pale moonlight
This is good for begging. I would start push at 10BB. Then 15 BB deep only Push somtehing like 22-77 A2-A9 or minraise and play postflop. When you will get advanced you can start limp/minraise some hands at ~6-10 BB