re: Poker & Seeing Opponents Cards
You will get every variety of answer to this from "Its cheating, dont look" to "Use the info, bro!!! Its poker to win money, and advantage is a good one"
I think a lot of "I wont look" players will actually look. A selected few will actually not.
It IS poker, and if he is playing bad, well, its our job to exploit weakness, and whether he telegraphs his play with tells, or shows his cards, you take the info you have and use it. The comment on, see what he has and how he plays it is a great one if this is a guy you may play again!!
You need to follow your own conscience here. If it was me, it would depend on my take on him. Is he a rich old fella with money to burn, or is he trying to get money for his grandsons bail? Of course you cant know, but certain things can be more apparent. As well, how is he as a person? Is he an arrogant dick? Look, and look again. Is he an amateur, who seems to be a nice but clueless guy? Find a moment and let him know he needs to pay attention to not show his cards. Since you mentioned having done that, you have done all you can do.
Maybe he likes you and wants you to take his money????