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Jared Tendler
DTB Coach
Silver Level
Thx a lot for replying.
I'm not sure why. There have to be some anxieties out there like fear of winning or w/e. Winning player hmm not entirely sure but I guess about a year, with months where I've tilted off a lot though but I hope that's in the past.
My goals are to at least beat 200nl cash, and go from there. Though goals about poker might not be a good thing, as Tommy Angelo says and I kind of agree, it's putting pressure on your game.
Procastination has been a big problem all my life pretty much. Doing better at it, not as much as I want tho. Then there are days like today where I can't be arsed to do anything, force myself to grind and obv play bad.
Anxieties are a really common cause of motivational issues - and often it can be strong enough to cause procrastination. The thing is though, that the real issue isn't the anxieties themselves, it's the underlying reason why you're feeling whatever pressure you're feeling. Sometimes it can be caused by high expectations, not wanting to fail - bc failure is believed to be a bad thing, or as you suggest, fear of winning. On a logical level it might seem odd to fear winning - what do you think the reason is that you fear it.
Poker goals are important because they help to determine what you do on a day-day basis in poker. The problem that many players have with poker goals is that they set goals that are not entirely up to them - ie. money goals. Pressure around goals is not the problem, in fact, pressure can be an incredible source of energy to achieve your goals. Pressure does become a problem when the level of it that you feel is too strong. But that doesn't mean that pressure is bad, just that we have to reduce the level of pressure you feel. To do that, you have to get to the source of what's causing the excess pressure. What comes to mind?