Stu_Ungar
Legend
Silver Level
So by your rationale its ok to say I hope someone rapes your child as well? I mean he doesnt really mean it so thats fine huh?
First up, the person saying these things isnt some kind of wizard, so its not a spell and by saying these words, he dosent set off a chain of events which leads to his prophecy becoming true.
So why does he say it?
He says these things to cause an emotional response in you.
If you read these words and react in the manner polite society expects you to, then he causes the exact emotional response he set out to cause and therefore accomplishes his goal.
He wants you to feel bad, and you do.
Switch chat off.. the problem goes away.