I have neither at the moment so I’m out. I happen to have a spouse that’s extremely needy so I’ve never had a peaceful session of poker. Add to that I have a 6 year old and a 2 year old who fight for my attention. I play poker on my phone and I imagine the people I’m playing in their quiet rooms with a computer sitting down peacefully and focused while I have my 2 sons and wife in my ear while I’m washing dishes, cooking or cleaning.... and then I wonder why I can’t win a tournament or a cash game or a spin and go.
I have a 2 and 4 yr old and a wife who "needs" me,i'm not looking forward to the day they don't,,,,
Yup poker is hard when you in a close relationship. People who don't play poker don't understand you need to concentrate very intensely while playing.