I know that a lot of us have full time jobs etc, and when we get home in the evening cant wait for a quick fix of poker until bed time and the next day of earning a living...But:-Do you think that playing poker online is anti-social or do you try to talk to your wife?

I seek to divide my time and put clearances for poker not to become a requirement

Yes if your just sitting there absorbing what you are watching with no interaction whats so ever. Than it really becomes an "escape" in a way if you are using it for entertainment purposes.

Depends on how much you play poker online. If all the time without having more time for nothing or if you can still live in harmony with those around you.

People find a hobby for spending free time. I do not see anything wrong with that.

I see poker as an escape from the outside world. Peace and quiet is how I like to play.

it doesn't have to be that's what the chat box is for

I think a little bit maybe, but you just have to have balance. And we are being somewhat social here, CC is a great poker community

Yes, a lot! But the secret of online poker is find a way to equilibrate this in your life. For me, the best thing is the quietly ambient, instropective moment, helps me a lot to make good decisions.

Majority of online poker players are introverts. There was a survey about this years ago. I find it difficult to play being extrovert, that's why I have to chat with people and prefer to have someone near me. In my case I'm playing poker during my job, using CAD/CAm software, drawing things and operating machines during poker sessions. It's not bothering me at all, and it brings a social element in my activity, cause most of the time all that I have around me is couple of CNC machines, several screens and lots of numbers to keep in mind, so chatting, playing poker, posting and reading forums is a form of social activity.

Online poker used to be pretty social actually in the pre BF days. But it has trended the opposite for me bc of many different things imo ; the player base is vastly different than before, some sites have anonymous tables and even no chat box (the main site I play is like this Ignition), and the change of TV poker has overall made the game less social than it used to be in my experience. At least CC games tend to change that a bit

I wouldn't say it's anti-social, we live in a rapidly changing world and some people forget that. It's like with computer games which are regarded as anti-social as many people forget that those games are played online with other people very often forcing interaction between them... I would even risk saying that it is pro-social as, as it is in my case, if I played live I probably would only meet a small group of people interested in playing in my surrounding, online I am able to meet people from all over the world which is great, and the fact that I have a choice to interact with them is awesome (as in live room not speaking back to people would be rude:P).

Yes. I have used poker as an isolation tool. Now I get jokes like: I found a quarter in the parking lot, takes you an hour playing poker to make that...ha ha

anti-social? so what we are doing here? In fact this is social...

I think that playing poker online is anti-social, for those who has real life !

Unsure if your reference is regarding online play or in relation to other social activity.
What is not cool is if detachment occurs over time without any warning. Mrs. ____ suddenly wakes up and feels like there is no relationship. Not to give any personal advise, but just a perspective based on my experience and testimony of others.

Some(many)times it is. It's up to the player and her/his playing environment.
Sometimes I play just to to kill the time.

Originally Posted by Beardownman

I know that a lot of us have full time jobs etc, and when we get home in the evening cant wait for a quick fix of poker until bed time and the next day of earning a living...But:-Do you think that playing poker online is anti-social or do you try to talk to your wife?

I don't know if online is "anti-social" but playing live is definitely more social (even if you don't talk with anyone).

Those are my two options? Play online poker or talk with the wife? lol

Good luck !

online is not antisocial, its just part of technical progress. 10+ years ago poker player got
one option - live poker, now that player have a choice - live or online. i think its wonderfull!

Originally Posted by Beardownman

I know that a lot of us have full time jobs etc, and when we get home in the evening cant wait for a quick fix of poker until bed time and the next day of earning a living...But:-Do you think that playing poker online is anti-social or do you try to talk to your wife?

The wife and I play together. I do not believe it is ant-social just merely convenient.
You can get her involved and teach her how to play.
Our 3 yr relationship has strengthen since I did this, not saying it was bad. LOL
It sure help taking a bite out of Boredom..
Good luck
sparky112

Hi I do not see the relationship of why being Hi I do not see the relationship of why being anti-social when playing online poker, that is, if you have any hobby that does not include your wife that would make you a bad husband ?, I believe that if we organize our time well always having as priority our partner we can do both and fulfill them correctly, I am not married living with my partner for more than 5 years and she never complained that I play online poker, I think I have achieved a positive balance and that she also respects my hobby and own time as I respect her hobby and her own time

When You playing every night its could be anti social youve got to keep mainteine balance in your life

I play poker, here I get a new friend ...

Poker doesn't make you anti-social , neither it's for these kind of people .

Some people can dedicate only few hours weekly on poker cause their work is very demanding so they can play specific games I think , others a few hours the weekdays or Saturday/Sunday , others can play more days cause their business and family affairs allows them and gives them more freedom . So poker is entertainment , it doesn't consume allthe time , everyone chooses the games he likes according to the time he wants and he is able to dedicate to , playing to make money or have fun . Everyone plays whatever suits him best when he wants , not everyone plays tournaments everyday all day .

He can play alone , he can play together with friends , he can play in an online stream which do many nowadays to socialize thegame evenmore . Moreover with poker you play with people , you can talk to them at the tables , there are poker forums to get along with them and learn how to become a better player . I don't understand the accusation of antisocial , at least for the great majority of poker players . Now , if sb is actually antisocial , poker won't make him more antisocial , but it brings him in contact with players and people , so he is being socialized more imho .

It is said that most professional poker players are lonely people without a family. I do not agree with this, think it depends on the person. As already noted above, everyone chooses a hobby for himself, I think that poker is a great pastime that complements life, and does not complicate it.

I try to plan my day in advance

No why is not

Anti social ? Even online poker is social, you play with another players, you can talk with them. When im playing at the evenings im still talking with my wife, we laughing, watching tv and drinking wine. In the same time when im playing poker and talking with my wife i eve play HearthStone and sometimes MUonline.

Yes it it is. But a lot freelancer jobs to.

poker is an individual game, it does not mean being antisocial, it's more I always talk to other players about different spots, we get together to have a beer, we go out, I think it's a more social but poker-focused environment

I don't think playin poker make us anti-socials. We should find a balance in all aspect in order to become anti-social

It seems a bit antisocial because we spend a lot of time alone in front of the computer, but there are many other jobs where the same thing happens. In my case, I do not consider myself antisocial.

It becomes so when playing poker mess with real life. If it's just a hobby / the way you're having a rest after long day, it's definitely not a problem, IMHO.

Originally Posted by Djangofreeman

Depends on how much you play poker online. If all the time without having more time for nothing or if you can still live in harmony with those around you.

perfect answer, I totally share what you say, greetings

I think this is a good opportunity to relax and play for your pleasure.




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only time i do get anti social is when i reach the ITM ,then i close out others

I think it is not antisocial. If the playing time is balanced with the other life tasks.
I can only write from my perspective of a hobby gamer.

But I can imagine that professional online gamers, i.e. those who play online multitable for 12 hours or more per day, often live a very withdrawn life.
But if this is antisocial ?..... Everyone lives in his own way.

I know people who surf the Internet 16 hours a day, but are so connected through various platforms and video chats have many like-minded friends.
And are therefore also not lonely.
I wouldn't call that antisocial.

More hands played, more profit .More profit (i.e.1M euro), more friends, which means a greater social burden.

GL!!!!

No it is not. In our day and age, many people are connected online. I play poker online with my friends because we can't all meet together at the moment.

I hope it is. So I play as much as I can. By the way, in the reality what the hell these words mean??? Social, society, anti-social ???? for me anti-social means, I have enough strenght to deny all the crap, including the set up droids, what, whose they force be 'part' of it, so their thing can be easier control, manipulate, watch, monitor, waste my life - even fool it happens for my advantage, this is so wonderful etc. in the west it has started in the 60s-70s, at least it is really visible from that time - and of course meantime they have biological speakers around me, whose automatically able to transfer the commie, psycho sick propagandas of the pyramids. How 2pac said - I did not get the meaning for a long while - and now since a while, I see it: F*ck them all!!! the pyramids from the top to the bottom. and they can tag me with anti-social words, as nothing else they can. An other - I do not know why - generally, publicly hated person Margaret Thatcher said, the society does not exist. I agree, it is just a word, a planted sick, never existed ideology, at least part of it for the advantage of the money owners and those who have a bit common sense, long tongue and know how to use it for their purposes. So the social word is the same, so the anti-social, too.
I fed up with things, droids from the matrix, whose eat all the crap instead of rethink, but they talk about freedom, meantime, if i choose to do, live differently, on my own, deny the mainstream brainwash, then they pull out the fake, created, mostly meaningless words, and tag with it. We are back in the 50s' commie era since a while, and it is getting worse and worse day by day.... especially with the tech-neo-commie boom...

I love to be anti-social, that is the proof I am not a psychopath or one of the cheapest slave at the bottom of the pyramids, who is doing the dirty part of the legal mass murders... and I still have own identity, ideology, able to decide what I think, nobody have to say it, nor humanoids, media, internet, retard phone. Of course the mainstream so sick, that I must be tagged with the 'anti-social', and finally I am happy with that, as I see the walking, screaming deads everywhere. I am definitely do not belong to any bunch of worse than animal level hordes...

I think online poker is anti-social. So one more reason I love it!!!

Originally Posted by Beardownman

I know that a lot of us have full time jobs etc, and when we get home in the evening cant wait for a quick fix of poker until bed time and the next day of earning a living...But:-Do you think that playing poker online is anti-social or do you try to talk to your wife?

Playing poker itself used to be a social activity, that was the point, get together with buddies and chat while playing some cards.

Unfortunately the online chat box is not quite the same as sitting around a table with the friends.

This is why I chose to stream, it allows me to be social while playing the game that i really love. And it's the reason I stream without a delay at http://twitch.tv/gripsed so that people can chat without having to wait 5 mins for a response.

I think that the multitabling, grindy, gaming nature of online can make it an antisocial activity... but that fits into a healthy day that has other socializing mixed in.

As with almost everything in life, balance is key!

It does breed some anti social tendencies, but for me its more towards non poker friends rather family.

No, i play online because i play when i have time for it

Yes it is! I play way to much cutting into the home social. I took the last week more or less off to be more mindful and came back to win a tournament.

maybe a little bit lol

No, people play to make money, not always be social

Online is not Anti social in my opinion. I dont let the game take away from my 2 kids and family but I do play later on at night. Would I rather play more live? yes. The problem its the cost of playing live and the convenience.

Hello i think it could be anti social. Its depends on the player. At one point its social, because you get in interacting with other people on the tables. On the other point if you do not have control about the limits and the playing time it could be easy addiction, so you loose the view of the important things in life. This could be family, job or friendship. But if you had the control of the game it would be no antisocial.

I prefer to chat with the players in my poker club over hanging out with people I am not that comfortable around. I have some really close friends that I enjoy spending time with but it is also very enjoyable to chat with people from all over the country and hear about all of their strategies and their life events. I also have no obligation to these people so it makes it easier to show up when I can without any feelings getting hurt. Everyone understands that we have our own personal lives to attend to. Plus I mean let's be honest... if you are a late night grinder like myself you are socializing with other degenerates and people who think like you. At your job and personal life those people do not exist.

No. I think it is not antisocial. After all, many other professions or hobbies are also possible only online.