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I have been learning and playing poker for a few years now and my experience has been limited to online poker only, pokerstars and clubwpt. There are no live tournaments in my area as I live in Northern canada and there are no casinos within 800km. I have played many satellite tournaments that awarded tickets to live games and events. In my experience I am an overly emotional guy while playing. I have used discipline and patience in my game play, but on the sidelines in my mind I am jumping for joy/ losing my cool. I know in a live tourney I could be a total wreck. Maybe even cry, shout in frustration or even pass out from being overwhelmed, And that is messed up in my mind. I was thinking of this the other day and had me worried about winning, which I have come close to a couple times. Stupid to have another emotion creep up just to tilt me at the time. Anyway, what are the tips and tricks I can use that would help keep me level headed and focused instead of being caught up in my emotions.
 
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When playing online I may yell, call you a dumbass or even throw something across the room. But live I realize I must act civilly because no one wants to be That Guy. I'm also going to tell you when I first started playing yes I was nervous as hell playing. You are going to be too. Only experience will allow you to calm down. The only advice I can give you is relax and if your emotions start to get away from you take a breath and walk around the room if you have too. While at the table start to concentrate on what the others are doing especially when you are not in a hand. Focus on everyone and not just one player.
 
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I am an overly emotional guy while playing. I have used discipline and patience in my game play, but on the sidelines in my mind I am jumping for joy/ losing my cool. I know in a live tourney I could be a total wreck. Maybe even cry, shout in frustration or even pass out from being overwhelmed,
Emotions will kill your game quickly. If you're "jittery" or nervous then that is derived from fear in my opinion. Fear will put you on the defense and as the saying goes, "Scared money loses." So I would recommend not playing a tournament you are emotional about. In my opinion it is a waste of money. You likely won't make good decisions.
what are the tips and tricks I can use that would help keep me level headed and focused instead of being caught up in my emotions.
I recommend focusing on the math and logic of each hand. If I'm folding to a 3-bet preflop it is not because I "fear" my opponent. It is because I have raised with a sub-premium hand and I don't want to call or raise my opponent's cbet. Just as an example.
 
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Emotions will kill your game quickly. If you're "jittery" or nervous then that is derived from fear in my opinion. Fear will put you on the defense and as the saying goes, "Scared money loses." So I would recommend not playing a tournament you are emotional about. In my opinion it is a waste of money. You likely won't make good decisions.

I recommend focusing on the math and logic of each hand. If I'm folding to a 3-bet preflop it is not because I "fear" my opponent. It is because I have raised with a sub-premium hand and I don't want to call or raise my opponent's cbet. Just as an example.
love the advice just focus on the math and logic, whatever happens happens poker is all about variance just keep your emotions in check

meditate first before playing

conditioning your mind
 
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I have been learning and playing poker for a few years now and my experience has been limited to online poker only, pokerstars and clubwpt. There are no live tournaments in my area as I live in Northern Canada and there are no casinos within 800km. I have played many satellite tournaments that awarded tickets to live games and events. In my experience I am an overly emotional guy while playing. I have used discipline and patience in my game play, but on the sidelines in my mind I am jumping for joy/ losing my cool. I know in a live tourney I could be a total wreck. Maybe even cry, shout in frustration or even pass out from being overwhelmed, And that is messed up in my mind. I was thinking of this the other day and had me worried about winning, which I have come close to a couple times. Stupid to have another emotion creep up just to tilt me at the time. Anyway, what are the tips and tricks I can use that would help keep me level headed and focused instead of being caught up in my emotions.
You wouldn't be normal otherwise. However, the more you play the more jaded you will become.
Play naturally and don't worry/fret about tricks and tips and the like. Look people in the eyes, tell jokes, share stories..whatever..be a player and be yourself.
Now..being yourself playing poker means you know how to handle a drink, how to be polite, how to talk to a dumb-ass, how to play with your chips, how to observe and be aware...all that good stuff. You may enter some surreal games given time but remember to walk in your own shoes not depend on others..unless they're trusted and it's to help you carry your money somewhere safe!
 
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You'll be fine. Live poker is sitting around folding for about an hour followed by a short adrenaline rush followed by another hour of folding. Repeat.

A lot of people probably act a bit crazy online but when playing live are able to be normal. If not and some emotions come out you can just apologize to your table if you feel the need. No one's going to really care. I've seen people slam the tables, threaten each other, I've even had one guy laugh in my face after I folded the winning hand. It's poker. You'll fit right in no matter where you are on the emotion spectrum.
 
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meditate first before playing

conditioning your mind

Absolutely this!

Some sort of deep relaxation technique applied throughout the session can work wonders. So many ways this can help:

1. A long tourney gets you tense, and uncomfortable - being half asleep means half the stress.

2. It looks like you are disinterested in the game - that can mean you are perceived as not 'being there to win', and so perhaps won't be taken too seriously as a threat by the right players.

3. It can help you focus directly before the game starts. I would chill at a lounge table, relax, and then quickly estimate amounts in my head: 26 slot machines; 7 waitresses; 74 light fittings etc. to help me focus on calculation and swift decision making.

4. You can handle threats of physical violence much better. This does happen BTW. Or is it just me?

5. Decision making is done calmy - which is good.

6. Prevents giving away tells - a poker face, in other words!

7. Gives a perception of 'coolness' and arrogance, which makes you a target - which is good. If someone is 'out to get you' due to you being 'aloof' and 'chilled out' (and you need to be bought back down to earth, they think), they're going to play their hand wrongly.

8. It's easier to put out a subtle misdirection - such as checking down a set until the river like you have nothing - than if you're fairly animated. The slightest of 'tells' provided to an observant opponent by way of a 'disappointed' "check" throughout the hand and a very slight look of disgust on the turn will likely cause the opponent to be mistakenly confident in their hand, if they have one.

9. And in relation to this, relaxing at the table can make you more sensitive and aware to the other players' psychology, and so know how to handle them. No good trying to misdirect a player who's staring at their hand/flop, for example, and a nervous player may need to be shown weakness as opposed to strength. A bad player would usually require 'strong' play in most circumstances.

10. Wow! That's 9 good ones. One more: when you get in the money, you can be more rational with the sharing (in a tourney - that's what I know about) than if you were excited and keen to do a deal. You'll know what the calculation is, and what your share should be, so when you ask for 5% extra you'll get it, beause everyone else, apparently, wants the deal more than you - and they know how stubborn and 'correct' you are so nobody's going to argue about it. They 'know' you won't give a darn if you have to play on - and they just want the cash so they can go home. And it's not even though you WILL be 'pretending' to not care - you know you are good so are happy to play on if the deal isn't made. As a good player you will be somewhat 'entitled' to a bigger share due to your chips having more 'value' - because you play those chips better than, or at least as good as, the rest.

There are bound to be articles online for relaxing methods that will work for you. Be aiming for something that can get you relaxed in 5-10 seconds. I can explain my technique if anyone on here asks - it's very powerful and effective, and combined with learning about tells gives quite the unfair advantage.
 
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I have been learning and playing poker for a few years now and my experience has been limited to online poker only, pokerstars and clubwpt. There are no live tournaments in my area as I live in Northern Canada and there are no casinos within 800km. I have played many satellite tournaments that awarded tickets to live games and events. In my experience I am an overly emotional guy while playing. I have used discipline and patience in my game play, but on the sidelines in my mind I am jumping for joy/ losing my cool. I know in a live tourney I could be a total wreck. Maybe even cry, shout in frustration or even pass out from being overwhelmed, And that is messed up in my mind. I was thinking of this the other day and had me worried about winning, which I have come close to a couple times. Stupid to have another emotion creep up just to tilt me at the time. Anyway, what are the tips and tricks I can use that would help keep me level headed and focused instead of being caught up in my emotions.
I was nervous my first time live, then I thought about how much I have been through in life and realized that a $100 tournament playing cards is absolutely nothing to be nervous about in any which way, it is just flipping cards for $100 dollars with random people…. Never really cared after that, in fact it’s hard for me to stay awake and pay attention sometimes lol
 
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I have had jitters my first live tournament, but I got comfortable eventually and then I did well . I finished 222nd out of roughly 900 players, it was good once jitters were gone. I have played 4 other live tournaments , and done very well cause I don't have the jitters no more. The more you play live tournaments they better you feel, then you can start cashing in on the tournaments. My best finish was 22nd in my last tournament I played in, it felt great finishing that . You also get more confident playing, jitters can help make some bad decisions. Jitters are normal, and confidence helps so much once the jitters are gone.
 
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