As long as everyone just puts money at stake that doesn't hurt when it's lost
there shouldn't be a problem. And if you knnow the stakes are too high for that
you would deny the offer to play against someone who is your friend...
kramer. That is exactly what I would have said.
I'm new in the place I live now. [7 years for me. I play in an invitation only group of about 25 that has been playing together in the same town for 20-30 years.]
Just one [very friendly] guy makes me uncomfortable because he is playing beyond his assets. I always feel that his losses are really a strain on his budget. If he were a 25-year friend of mine, I'd suggest that he
not to play, but I'd be happy to have him deal so he could be with us and pick up a few bux for sure.
Another case that happened about last June is that a well-employed table friend took a big pandemic related job loss. I called the poker host and told him that I'd donate anonymously all my take for the last year to help him back on his feet.
The next week he came into the game with the great news that he had found himself a similar job in the same field. He didn't need any of the money, but that's how close we are.
Poker + friends? Works well for me.