Poker for money ruins friendship?

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I think it's wrong to play with friends for money. We used to play with wrappers. But with friends against someone at the same table, it's a different conversation.
 
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Wtf dude xd? If u play with frends its normal u play for fun not for cash :p, and if u play for cash then just make an micro buy in like 20-100$ (deepends how rich u are) ofc without rebuys. I did it this way with my friends at weekend e1 had 50$ stack 4-6 frends and winner gets the pot :p
 
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When playing poker with friends, it has always been for fun. I have played with buddies all my life , never have ruined friendships, cause it is for fun. If ruins friendships then they weren't friends to begin with.
 
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If the money on a cards table between friends is an issue, it was never about the experience and fun to begin with.

Take their shit.
When I play with friends, we do a single tournament, we all buy a certain amount of chips equally and we play up to three or four tournaments a weekend for fun. The amount of money is minimal, so that it does not affect much the pocket of each one if it is lost.
 
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I play with a few friends 1 or 2 times per month for small amounts of money and a lot of fun.
 
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if the friendship is true it does not break for money
 
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Poker brings true friends closer together, whether it's playing money or not
 
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This game of friends, here I do not agree that friendship is under attack we are having fun, do not swear.
 
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It can ruin relationships, not only at the poker tables, but marriages fail because of all sorts of addictions, not just poker, Drugs, Alcohol, gambling are all very addictive and if a person need his fix he will go to any lengths to get it if he is that way inclined. Lying, Cheating, and Stealing from friends and family just to support the addiction.
There is no simple solution to this problem, because we are all different, but if you can see the problem for yourself and take a step back and realise that your addiction is ruining lives around you, then it's possible to beat it.
I was once attracted (not addicted) to the horse racing scene, so much, I said to a girlfriend I had at the time that I would see her any day of the week except Saturday afternoons, When she asked why? I said " that day is the time I make my money at the bookies".
During the week I would lay bets at the betting shops every day during my lunch break and then return to work, on a Saturday I would stay in the betting shop, placing bets and watching the horse results all day.
Then after a bad day losing heavily it dawned on me that it was not the life I wanted for my girlfriend. I walked out of the betting shop and never went back.
I was one of the lucky ones that could see that my lifestyle was getting out of control and before it got a good hold on me I beat it.
I married that Girl 45 years ago and we are still together and even now I will never return to the bookies, Sure I have a flutter now and again if we fancy a day at the race track but that is very, very rare and it is just part of the day out, I can take it or leave it I think the last time was about 7 years ago.

When the fun Stops, STOP!
 
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I think it's wrong to play with friends for money. We used to play with wrappers. But with friends against someone at the same table, it's a different conversation.


"Friendship and money - oil and water". Find out how many real friends you have when it comes to money ;)
 
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no, I don't think so, if it's a sincere friendship, money goes into the background, it has never happened to me, thank God.

" A man's true feelings are manifested in a game of poker "
 
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"Friendship and money - oil and water". Find out how many real friends you have when it comes to money ;)


Yeah man, the number more likely is a huge 0... as the money overwrites everything, if you live in the reality....

I never liked to play in money with 'friends', fortunately most of them thought the same. There were one guy who always forced it instead of just sit down, talking, drinking and play poker for fun, so after a while we did not invited, if we played poker, too...
 
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It will depend on the circle of friendship you have, in my case my friends are like siblings so when we play it is super easy, there are the jokes that are normal and you really have to, friends have to make fun and take it with them and when one hold on we talk ... Here it will always be like this. And they always end up laughing and accepting it. Because one day you make fun and the next you make fun
 
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It's very easy to explain. Football players play for 2 warring teams on the field, and in life they are excellent friends and even godfathers. Professionals ALWAYS separate work from individuals, and in poker, I think so too. In any case, I am an adherent of this.
 
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Years ago I used to play poker with 5 other friends every second Friday night. We played for money but it was just low stakes. It was more for the fun and fellowship. There are a lot of good memories from those games even after many years have gone by.
 
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If you lose a friend over a game of poker, I don't think they ever truly were a friend . . .
 
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I cant say that because i play with friends every week. Yea they might go home mad but will still come back and drink and have fun. Dont let it get to serious,and we have rebuys for the first couple hours. Good luck and have fun.
 
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I can play with a friend in the same tournament, but I will never agree to play heads-up with him for money.
 
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the problem is when there is someone who doesn’t know how to lose ... but usually everything is fine ... you may not want to bet too high
 
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Hello. I would say it depends on one's personality at the table. A Negreanu may win friends while a Hellmuth may start a fight.
 
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I do not think so. Lack of maturity to lose friendship playing poker for money.
 
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Keep it low stakes and you'll be fine. Once the stakes get too big, friendships can definitely be lost forever.
 
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It shouldn't, but it has. I know from first hand experience.
 
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I’ve known people never speak again after 1 game of poker��
It shouldn’t happen but it does
 
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No I don't think so, me and my friends play a monthly low stakes games and never have any problems. Probably best to stick to tournament styles games rather than cash.
 
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