I think that this question is not as easy as you initially think. For people who only play occasionally, it shouldn't be a question of deciding between a game or for the partner / family. But I can imagine that for people who are professional poker players and earn their living with it, this question is not that easy. But on the other hand, the partner should see it as a job and not as an addiction, that is very quickly claimed when you play poker. People who are addicted to poker should stop playing poker without the question of whether you lose your spouse, because addiction is a disease that must be treated.