There is nothing worse than seeing someone throw a temper tantrum after losing...You can play a hand absolutely perfect.. get max value out of someone..even know what they have in their hand..Do everything 100% correct...Got your money in with the best hand...As long as a spade doesn't hit on the river you are golden...But when that spade hits on the river you have to be mentally tough to know it's part of the game... You can't be mad at your opponent for chasing and catching..you can't dwell on someone getting rewarded for playing bad..Don't get me wrong, you can be upset and frustrated, weather you've been playing for 9 weeks or 9 years, weather it was 50% odds before the river or 4%...You are gambling and like my dad always said..
Some days your the bug and some days your the windshield
If it is just about poker, it is not totally correct, as most of the days you are the bug and some days you are not - at least if we see the tourney players.
In real life, facing with reality, it is totally incorrect, as you, me, everybody - except the very few - are always the bug....
About poker, I can live with that, but that bloody math, that I can count the probability, variance in long runs - even if i couldn't I can check it -, and it does not match, or giving too often, the 'once in a lifetime' or at least few years results... as I play online, I rarely mad, blame to my opponents, but online there are other factors, too...
Anyway, I think it is quiet normal, having some reaction after some rare 'bad beat', when I am in a good mode, even watch some of the weirdest live and online reaction videos - it is funny + gives me a feedback my reactions are way not so mad, like plenty others'...
'Nothing worse than seeing a temper after loosing...'
have you ever played or even just watched any sport??? it is natural, normal within some boundaries, everyone have some reaction for situations like that, even the insanely overpaid sport players are upset, okay you can find the smiling retard face ones after losing there, as they don't care much the result, but that's still not the majority of them, either....