I particularly like poker cause it disconnects me from programming (I'm a full-time software developer) but my wife doesn't like poker the same as I do. What I'd like to know is how you carry on that small difference in your life as couples.

No is the short answer, my wife don't like poker.

My husband doesn't know what poker is

My husband loves and plays more poker than I do, but I love it a play quite a bit too. We support each other playing poker. There are other activities that each of us do that the other one does not, but I think thats healthy and important too in a relationship

My girl likes to watch poker with me, but doesn't like to play.

My wife doesn’t like it as much as me but she has shown interest which is cool.

Originally Posted by Drumsound

My girl likes to watch poker with me, but doesn't like to play.

I think that is very important, to feel supported. At the end of the day regardless of the result you can discuss it together.

Originally Posted by pinkpanther

My husband doesn't know what poker is

LOL, mmm have you tried to teach him? He may be interested, who knows.

well, luckily she arrived one fine day and told one to stop playing or she would go away .. I asked if she wanted me to call u Uber, intaumm she hates ,, kkkkkk

she was playing with me offline some times, for online poker she is interested to watch my games, but I play not good with her on my side

Hi.
My girlfriend does not like poker. Very often she gets angry when I play poker for more than 2-3 hours. Therefore, I have to look for a compromise that will satisfy both of us.
Good luck.

I taught my girl how to play about 6 months ago, we haven't played again but when I am playing she is very interested in how I am doing, and a lot of times just watches me play, while doing something else. It's very nice to have that kind of support tbh

Originally Posted by hartmann2508

well, luckily she arrived one fine day and told one to stop playing or she would go away .. I asked if she wanted me to call u Uber, intaumm she hates ,, kkkkkk

LOL, apparently poker is your true love. For the record, what was her response?

Originally Posted by Newzooozooo

Hi.
My girlfriend does not like poker. Very often she gets angry when I play poker for more than 2-3 hours. Therefore, I have to look for a compromise that will satisfy both of us.
Good luck.

Thanks, that's good advice. I'm going to keep trying to see if she's interested, and if she doesn't, I'll try what you tell me.

Originally Posted by pohewa

I taught my girl how to play about 6 months ago, we haven't played again but when I am playing she is very interested in how I am doing, and a lot of times just watches me play, while doing something else. It's very nice to have that kind of support tbh

Yes, I'm agree with you, is very nice to have that kind of support, you're lucky!

my wife doesn't like poker so I play only when she is sleeping already and I always say it's just play money

no wife, no problem

Originally Posted by nesser

I think that is very important, to feel supported. At the end of the day regardless of the result you can discuss it together.

Yeah, she's super great. She got me a year's subscription to PokerCoaching.com for my birthday.

Originally Posted by Drumsound

Yeah, she's super great. She got me a year's subscription to PokerCoaching.com for my birthday.

What a great gift, and the question is: what birthday present did you give her?... you're so lucky man!

Originally Posted by nesser

What a great gift, and the question is: what birthday present did you give her?... you're so lucky man!

I am. Her birthday isn't until October, so I have some time to think...

Nobody in my family have no clue about poker. They know I play and they know I make some money. But apart from that - they know nothing about the game.

Originally Posted by BlackJesus

Nobody in my family have no clue about poker. They know I play and they know I make some money. But apart from that - they know nothing about the game.

And that doesn't bothers you? or do you like to be given that kind of space for yourself. E.g. I don't like to be disturbed while I'm programming but while I'm playing online is different.

Originally Posted by nesser

I particularly like poker cause it disconnects me from programming (I'm a full-time software developer) but my wife doesn't like poker the same as I do. What I'd like to know is how you carry on that small difference in your life as couples.

My wife neither by chance nor closely likes anything about Poker, what she likes to know about him is whether or not I won money for her tastes. Interest ahead ... I hope you don't read this message, and I know it won't because this is a Poker page.

Is he play poker.

My wife likes the $$$ that comes with poker,,,,

She doesn't play it because she's not into it. I don't think she likes or dislikes it.

I have a girlfriend but not even aware that I play poker online. I'm just saying, make as much money or lose. she tells me tomorrow will be a better day

I stopped playing regularly home games with my friends when I get married (
And near that time I started playing online. My wife didn't get it, and often she was annoying about me spending time in online poker.
But when was our first child born, she was at home with him for a quite a long time and once my wife asked me to explain rules for her. A few weeks later - asked me to register her in some room. She was playing sometimes during 2 or 3 years, mostly freerolls or cheapest tournaments, and even won couple hundreds of euros. But then her interest faded, and the time became less as she went to work.
So now she doesn't play, but supports me in playing poker. Especially after some withdrawals, from which she received her bonuses in the form of gifts and trips )

my wife only likes poker slot machines.

My wife doesn't like me playing poker

La verdad es que a mi pareja le gusta el póquer pero no como a mí.
Es un gran apoyo pero dice que no entiende el deporte.

the question makes me wonder if people choose their couples based on similarities.
I do not know yet but I just putten my detective glasses on

No, my wife does not understand at all why this is necessary, and what I like about poker, despite the fact that when we got together with friends, lovers of playing live, she is always ahead. And she plays not badly, very much, only she is not interested

Each person has their own hobby. The main thing is to respect the choice of the other person. And also it is not worth filling the space around us not only with gambling, but also with relationships with people dear to us.

Originally Posted by zrok_ar

I stopped playing regularly home games with my friends when I get married (
And near that time I started playing online. My wife didn't get it, and often she was annoying about me spending time in online poker.
But when was our first child born, she was at home with him for a quite a long time and once my wife asked me to explain rules for her. A few weeks later - asked me to register her in some room. She was playing sometimes during 2 or 3 years, mostly freerolls or cheapest tournaments, and even won couple hundreds of euros. But then her interest faded, and the time became less as she went to work.
So now she doesn't play, but supports me in playing poker. Especially after some withdrawals, from which she received her bonuses in the form of gifts and trips )

That's a very good story, with a happy ending. My case is a lot like yours, at first I taught her and she was excited but then she got over it, she doesn't complain when I play either (but I don't do it daily)

I didn't know anything about poker, other than winning hand order, until my wife taught me how to play. Prior to that, I saw no difference between poker and a slot machine. And she still plays more than I do.

Originally Posted by owler

the question makes me wonder if people choose their couples based on similarities.
I do not know yet but I just putten my detective glasses on

I think that usually you're looking for someone who complements you, but who isn't so different in terms of personality, habits, hobbies. Sometimes you're lucky like me (It doesn't matter that sometimes we have different points of view on many subjects)

Originally Posted by dominisantus

No, my wife does not understand at all why this is necessary, and what I like about poker, despite the fact that when we got together with friends, lovers of playing live, she is always ahead. And she plays not badly, very much, only she is not interested

For me, beyond that I'm not a gambler, I like this kind of competition, because of the adrenaline that sometimes flows and because it allows me to disconnect from work.

nope not really..however she's very impressed how a cardgame can create such a passin in me

Cheers

She wanted to learn it but when she saw me so visually she gave up and on occasions she gets upset with me.

My wife just recently started out playing poker, and we both love to play....just last month she won a $100 buyin game at a local tourney , won $700 for 1st out of 22 players , she outlived me I came in 13th, she loves playing poker

My wife loved poker so much that she decided that I decided to win a tournament with Team Pro Pokerstars - Evgenia Katchalova and get a professional set for 500 chips to play with friends)))

My wife tolerates my poker playing. It doesn’t interfere with my work or household duties. The only time she disapproved is when I get tilted after taking several bad losses and getting knocked out of a tournament. I learned my lesson on tilting, good for both of us.

Originally Posted by BatOneHat

My wife tolerates my poker playing. It doesn’t interfere with my work or household duties. The only time she disapproved is when I get tilted after taking several bad losses and getting knocked out of a tournament. I learned my lesson on tilting, good for both of us.

That is the most important thing, don't stop doing your homework or your work (unless you are a pro). At the beginning I also got tilted easily but then I understood that getting knocked out or receiving bad beats is part of the game.

Originally Posted by anadrijav

She wanted to learn it but when she saw me so visually she gave up and on occasions she gets upset with me.

Try to be patient with her. If she has the desire to learn it is easier for you (as long as you want to teach her)

Originally Posted by DoIHaveAFlush

nope not really..however she's very impressed how a cardgame can create such a passin in me

Cheers

There you go. And have you recently withdrawn something?

Unfortunately, one of my relationships before was broken due to that fact that I was paying attention a lot of time to poker, watching sports events and betting and the answer to your question is no. Sometimes these things in the private life can be decisive. I learnt that you have to know how to use your time right in all of your priorities to keep them safe, but I still have difficulties to put more attention to other things than to my favorite ones ( watching sports events, playing poker and etc.)

Originally Posted by jfmcd86

My wife just recently started out playing poker, and we both love to play....just last month she won a $100 buyin game at a local tourney , won $700 for 1st out of 22 players , she outlived me I came in 13th, she loves playing poker

So she is good at the tables isn't she?. you must be happy right? And in the middle of this pandemic it still go on local tournaments?

Originally Posted by terryk

My wife likes the $$$ that comes with poker,,,,

Congrats bro. So you're a pro aren't you? Just for the record, how much did you withdraw last 6 months.

Originally Posted by Argonaut

I didn't know anything about poker, other than winning hand order, until my wife taught me how to play. Prior to that, I saw no difference between poker and a slot machine. And she still plays more than I do.

Believe me there is a big difference. And she is on CC? if she isn't you should register her.