If I'm playing multiple tables, it is difficult to pay a lot, but I'll try. But if I'm only playing one, I'll usually do something else at the same time. Sure I'll pay attention, but not so much that I start playing hands in spots that I shouldn't.
When our online "home game" is going, we all connect to discord, queu up the tunes, and have a good old chin wag.
Have had the same weekly online home game since the first lockdown. Monthly we meet in person once for a live home game .... Full attention!
...and another monthly live tourney where you have to pay attention or the dealer will swipe your cards into the muck. There's always one though, who doesn't....and they're the ones to punish.