Sounds to me like you might be getting into games that don't match your level of patience. Might try some SNGs with three-minute blind raises. They also have five-minute blind raise games. For one thing, those games give players less time to respond, and they move quicker than other games. My forte is triple up SNGs with ten-minute blind raises. These games match my personality, but I know where you're coming from. Tried to play in six-handed SNGs with Twelve-minute blind raises and the level of patience needed just wasn't suited for me.anxiety bothers me a lot in poker, I hate it when a player waits for the time to run out and gives up, it sometimes makes me bet everything to finish the game soon.