My response was adequate & fair
I think we will agree to disagree on my post but that's ok..
I have been thinking about this for a while and how I wanted to respond. I also want to think if I did something that was wrong or could have said better. .
I was not encouraging him to deposit again but told him it was mandatory to stop and take care of his debt issue. Now I could have been clearer on the next part but I did say There may be a bigger issue and I was alluding to a possible problem with gambling. I did not want to call him out and yes I could have been clearer but since I dont know the person I will still stand he need to think about the issues of his going broke. He will need to answer that for himself.
As for bankroll ideas, if he lost that much that quickly he need to know this is out there if he decided to play again. Realistically if he is just starting he must follow this or go broke again to quickly. To many players play poker to make money and think if I deposit 500 I can turn it into 5000 in a week. Its not that easy or simple but if he does try again I would rather help him have a better chance to learn and succeed.
Now if I were to give him advise to play again it would be this. After his dept is paid off, He could play free rolls until he built up a proper bankroll to play the lowest level out there. I would also tell him to play for the enjoyment of the game and not to just make money.
Now to you post and is it fair and accurate, It dont matter. Its not about you or me but the fact you cared enough about a fellow cardchat member to help protect him. I am glad your willing to stick up for someone that you had concerns about. You dont know me but if you did you would know I would never encourage anyone to do something they should not.
And this is unfair...$500 is a huge sum to those who don't have it, while being considered a small amount to others who do.
There is nothing irresponsible in the post you quote, for you to be having a go at another patron. Don't think it's at all helpful to the original poster.
Better you reach out to the person that is looking for good advice.