Funny thing is that I'm not surprised that you aren't surprised. We've had some in depth discussion previously on this, so all I'd probably be doing is restating things again.I knew you wouldnt like it so thats no big suprise.
^^this is pretty much dead on.
Storm, please consider that it is self delusional to think that this your problem is a "bankroll management" issue. It's not.
Stick is right, if you can't divorce yourself from the money and start thinking in terms of 'poker units' (big blinds, buy-ins, etc.) instead of dollars and cents, then that is something you need to work on.
The fact of the matter is, if you can't beat $50NL, then playing $200NL is not the solution.
And you can't beat $50NL. Sorry, it doesn't matter if the reason you can't beat it is lack of skill or if the reason is lack of discipline and tilt issues. The fact remains, you can't beat $50NL.
Let me also just add that a lot of people play at a lower level on line than they do live (estelle comes to mind), partially because the skill level is a lot higher at similar stakes than it is live.
So let me suggest an alternate course of action:
'Demote' your self to $10NL and play there until you resolve your problem with thinking about money instead of 'units', and, more importantly, until you are immune from tilt. And take that $4k and put it in your new child's college fund.
Read AG and Sticks reasoning - I don't feel like repeating basically the same thing they are saying.
As for the gambling issue, two days ago you were done with online poker, now depositing $4k is the answer. Dumping more money into a "hobby" you gave up 2 days ago screams compuslive and something you can't quit. That's just my opinion. Obviously your looking for opinions otherwise you wouldn't keep posting these threads every other day.
By Golly, I think our boy has seen the light! Work out those bugs at the lower limits where mistakes cost much less, tilt-related or otherwise.ignoring the last sentence the rest of this post is very good alien. And I might just drop down a little, not to $10nl but lower. I seriously doubt my skill is a issue but you might have a point about bankroll/tilt issues. What I might do is put the 4k on but still play lower levels, not sure yet I will decide when I get back from A.C.....
Maybe its just that I got so used to playing 1/2nl live that I felt horrible sitting so small online, . I really dont know why I have had such a hard time online lately. Thanks.
By Golly, I think our boy has seen the light! Work out those bugs at the lower limits where mistakes cost much less, tilt-related or otherwise.
ignoring the last sentence the rest of this post is very good alien.
And I might just drop down a little, not to $10nl but lower. I seriously doubt my skill is a issue but you might have a point about bankroll/tilt issues.
What I might do is put the 4k on but still play lower levels, not sure yet I will decide when I get back from A.C.....
Maybe its just that I got so used to playing 1/2nl live that I felt horrible sitting so small online, . I really dont know why I have had such a hard time online latley. Thanks.
Again, lots of people play lower on line than live, and for good reasons. I think putting four thousand dollars on line is just asking to be tempted to play higher. If you are serious about considering making the right decision here, don't deposit the $4K.
seriously even if I have 4k online if I cant control myself to stay at levels I think I should be at I should not be playing at all, live or online. So the amount I put on is not important, the important part is saying Im going to do something and doing it. agreed?
if im that tempted to move up then yes I should just quit.
the 4k is of course not nothing but it is money that was going to be used for poker anyway during wsop.
MrSticker said:By Golly, I think our boy has seen the light! Work out those bugs at the lower limits where mistakes cost much less, tilt-related or otherwise.
Dude, I think you've totally misunderstood my last post. "Seen the light" means you understand what we are trying to say. "You get it! Good Job! Go work it out at $10NL or lower, like you said." At least, I thought you did.jerk!
the post was posted to get opinions Stick
Dude, I think you've totally misunderstood my last post. "Seen the light" means you understand what we are trying to say. "You get it! Good Job! Go work it out at $10NL or lower, like you said." At least, I thought you did.
If you've gone so far off the deep end that you can't even understand the written word, then I'll have to bid farewell to you and your "issues". Good luck, sir.
Why put yourself in that position? You don't need $4k to play the limits we are talking about. Surely there is no need to beat yourself up and 'quit' again if you slip once and take a shot at a higher game.
An analogy: if you were on a diet and trying to lose weight, would you put a bag of cookies in your cupboard and say, "If I can't not eat them then I deserve to be fat" ? Of course not-- you wouldn't have cookies around in the first place if you were serious about your goal.
Hmmm, I'm late to the discussion, but,
would you put some kind of structure on your playing?
Something simple, like "I'm going to start at 50NL. If I lose 3 buy-ins, I will drop down to 25NL. When my bankroll has recovered those 3 buy-ins, I will go back to 50NL. Once my bankroll is earned 3 buy-ins for 100NL, I will allow myself to try 100NL"
I have zero experience in bankroll managment so its all kinda new to me. Its funny/sad because I have all the knowledge and skills to be a really really good player but my total lack of BM makes me such a horrible player right now.
Like JD said he and I have talked tons about this but I'm still trying to learn good BM skills....
Just bear with me while I try to obtain workable bankroll managment skills. Im going from a good player with zero BM skills to a good player with good BM skills.
Because of this post I just feel like I have to say again that it is NOT bankroll management that is your problem. Please reread if you missed those points I tried to make.
Because of this post I just feel like I have to say again that it is NOT bankroll management that is your problem. Please reread if you missed those points I tried to make.
obv there is no hope
I know your points alien I was just answering the question that was asked, the problem was my total disregaurd for the value of the money I deposited.
but I also have zero bankroll managment skills, I know exactly where my flaws were/are and I plan on fixing them.
lol,
if you cant add anything to the thread stay out of it seriously, all I have seen is you have a gambling problem and agreeing with posters actully contributing.