fwiw I actually played with her since I posted that lol was in the wsop
AC circuit ME I didn't realize it was her until I read pokernews afterwards but dealer made a pretty bad comment saying "why aren't you over in the ladies tourney?" I completely understood her being offended but then she responded "so just because I have a vagina you think I should be playing with all the horrible females?"
I've always thought it was kinda sexist that generally the ME in a lot of series' conflicts with the ladies event, almost implying that they're not good enough to play in the ME (but maybe it's even for the best because it gets the super-serious female players out of what's supposed to be geared more towards the social aspect and welcoming newer females to the game I think?) but I'd be surprised if many women would be happy with someone making comments about how almost all females suck at poker being the female poy.
That said other than that she seemed pleasant enough, even though I've heard super negative things about her demeanor at the table from other people. She was polite and friendly in general although she didn't really play many pots when I was at the table.