i think it is all cheats.....we are playing online .....poker is one mind against another......when it became ok to use programs to enhance your game was a sad day for me......but im no pro .... I will never understand why our poker community thinks they are legit to use.
This is a battle that has been lost a long time ago. Philosophically, I understand your point of view, but online poker is different than live poker and people who insist that such programs are cheating are really just limiting themselves. There are always going to be players out there who will use every advantage possible. In fact, I would argue that the majority of online players, even at the micros, are using at least PT/HM.
Some stay within the bounds of site-permitted software, others use anything and everything, site-permitted or not. It's a choice everyone makes, but just realize that if you aren't using at least the basics like PT/HM, stove, etc; that you are playing at a serious disadvantage to those who do.