re: Poker & Holdem manager / tournament shark ?
Tournament shark really does nothing to tell you how to play your opponent, just how well they are at different stages of a tournament and what their results are. You can get all of this data on sites like OPR and SharkScope
(limited searches) for free. HEM will give you information on how all of your opponents play all of the hands they play against you. The reason Tournament Shark is not prohibited is because it just shows you publicly available data(namely you could figure it all out if you just aggregated the results from every tournament played on that specific site.)
And yes, HEM pro and micro editions collect data from SnG's and MTT's.