Hi vant welcome to the forum,
It seems like you are seriously wanting to improve your game, and so I will say this;
I mean this in as unoffensively a way possible; but your statements convey a lack of some important poker knowledge and strategy; But you are definitely on the right track! but make sure you continue asking questions, and read, read-read- apply and study;
There are a significant amount of resources articles and very skilled players here on the forum who can and will lend advice and encouragement. So DON't be discouraged,
No one is "done" or has "arrived" and no one plays perfectly. . . .every hand.
i can't think of the link (to article) off the top of my head that adresses the aprticular concept Im trying to convey; but here is a link to the strategy section here. http://www.cardschat.com/poker-strategy.php
im no pro by any stretch of the imagination but I know how much i appreciated ppl helping lead me to helpful tools and info..
all the best!